If you and your sibling are invited to a party. You would...
A. Go alone. Why does she have to be with me everywhere that I choose to go?
B. Go with her, but then hang out with your own bunch of buddies at the party.
C. Be spending all our time together.
If your sibling gets compliments for his outfit, you would ...
A. Try your best to change the topic. He always wants everyone's attention.
B. Feel good about it and join in.
C. Cheer him on and make sure everyone says something complimentary.
Your sibling asks you to have lunch with her. What would you do?
A. Find, or invent, some extremely urgent work and tell her that you're too busy.
B. Agree to go if you are up to it.
C. Of course, you will go with her even if you have bad tummy and a high fever.
You are out shopping with your sibling, and he chooses something that doesn't suit him. You would...
A. Let him buy it just to be mean.
B. Give your honest opinion, but let him make the final decision for himself.
C. Never say anything to hurt him.
Your sibling is alone while you are going out?
A. That's not your worry or concern.
B. You would ask if she needs anything or if she would like to join you.
C. You would hastily cancel all of your plans and stay by her side.
Mostly A:
You have problems that need to be sorted out. If your sibling feels the same way about you then you definitely need to take a step to salvage your relationship.
Mostly B:
You have a healthy relationship with your sibling. It also means that you are pretty confident about yourself and are secure about your relationship.
Mostly C:
You seem to be too dependent on your sibling. Your opinions and choices may not always be the same, but that doesn't mean your relationship is suffering.
